I witness a scene of a couple quarrel. What triggered the quarrel was a minor misunderstanding. The story goes this way;

The man came back from work. His wife welcomed him so also the children, then he went to see the last child who was still in the room and there he made a statement that shocked everyone. He said “you are becoming a nightmare to us” 

It is true that the child has a health challenge that has costed him a lot of money and he hasn’t finished spending yet.  

That statement really annoyed his wife, but she talked calmly and said “I reject that curse for my child”
then she said to the man that what he said was wrong and he was cursing the child she even tried to explain to him how his words can have negative effect on the child.

The man being a narcissist refused to listen instead he began to justify himself. He said, “he was just expressing his frustration over the money he had spent on her”. Emphasizing his hard-earned money. Then he began to say things are not part of the topic like he has been providing for his family. 

The wife tried to explain things to him, but he refused to acknowledge his wrong instead he began to insult his wife and escalate the issue. 

The wife on the other hand did not relent but replied back in harsh tones. Then he turned to the children and began to talk to them saying that has he not been providing and their mother is indoctrinating them. He said a lot of other things to them.

Then he began to say that he just came back tired from work where he is suffering to provide for the family and instead of being talked gently to, he has been quarreled and disrespected.

It was a heated quarrel and then he turned to me to side him, but I did not.

What is your opinion on this? Your response will be highly appreciated.

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