Sometimes being yourself is the best; even if you have to impress try not to overdo it. I tried to prepare different delicacies for my family just to prove that I am a good wife and mother. Also to cut down on some food expenses Omo, the beans akara I prepared was not edible at all. I lost a good quantity of beans, oil and other ingredients in the process because I had to throw everything away. The next time such idea comes to my mind, I'll remind myself to do what I know that works for me. Have you ever tried to do something good just to impress but ended up feeling bad?