WHEN YOU BUILD A LIFE, OR A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO WAY OUT, YOU ARE NOT CREATING STRENGTH, YOU ARE CREATING PRESSURE. WHAT IS NOT ALLOWED TO BE RELEASED FREELY WILL EVENTUALLY FORCE ITS WAY OUT, OFTEN IN DIFFICULT AND UNEXPECTED WAYS. HUMANS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE TRAPPED; THEY ARE MEANT TO BE GUIDED, NOT CONTROLLED. WHAT IS FORCED TO STAY NEVER STAYS PEACEFULLY FOR LONG. THERE IS WISDOM IN GIVING SPACE AND ALLOWING THINGS TO BREATHE. EVEN LOVE AND LEADERSHIP LOSE THEIR MEANING WHEN THEY BECOME LIKE A PRISON. FREEDOM DOES NOT MEAN LACK OF COMMITMENT; IT MEANS HAVING A CHOICE. WHEN PEOPLE LOSE CHOICE, RESENTMENT SLOWLY GROWS. AND WHAT GROWS IN SILENCE OFTEN COMES OUT LOUDLY LATER. WHAT IS HELD WITHOUT FREEDOM WILL EVENTUALLY BREAK.
