Some things on my mind. Plenty of it are things you don't really want to hear.

Like: Do you believe you might actually not be the real biological father of your first born.

Never, you say. It can never happen to me. Maybe. Those that happened to also say the same thing back then.

I am not here to hurt your egos, though. I am here to challenge you.

What Are Things You Secretly Believe Are Possible But You're Shying Away From?

Is your woman cheating?

Do you hate your boss?

Are you planning to start a business?

Or you're just totally confused about life?

I spent 11 years dating around and doing all kinds of st*pïd things both men and women do and I learned one thing:

At the end of the day we don't really know what we want out of life.

You might believe you want a girlfriend only to get married to her and realize you don't want a relationship at all.

Just like you don't realize kids might be the most annoying thing to you.

All these things make you look bad ~ to yourself and others.

You feel like you shouldn't be saying it. Because women are watching. And they wouldn't want to marry you.

Definitely, you're right. No woman in her right sënsës would want a man who thinks kids are annoying and one day he could wake up feeling like he didn't like his wife anymore.

A woman is supposed to be scared. Because a man like you is so rare that it is likely only in Jupiter we could find a second one like you.

But That Is Exactly How Society Want You to Think

It wants you to feel like you don't belong here.

Like you're kind of an alien.

Because in my experience: the more people couldn't categorize or label you the more emotionally f’ückëd you're going to feel.

You'd be waking up every night asking yourself “Why am I here?”

There wouldn't be an answer. Because the only solution for you is to be the real you.

You have to wake up knowing this is another day and you're going to offend two or three different people that had nothing to do with your emotional life and financial experience.

Mostly they knew nothing about you. They didn't know your pain. All they know is that they didn't like you.

And the more you try to wrap your head around it, figuring out why they just can't like you, the more emotionally wrëckëd you're going to become.

I Have a Solution

Be absolutely open to unconventional ideas that you don't really care about who likes you or hate you anymore.

Go long distance jogging in the middle of the day (just like me) under a heavy cräzy afternoon sun and pretend the weather is so cool that you don't really want to stop running.

Be completely delusional.

Let people see the mäniäc in you.

Don't have a girlfriend if you have to. Because mostly what you do will affect her. And there's a possibility she will talk.

And once she starts talking a problem will arise: either you listen to her or you ignore her. Which will bring another flavour of emotional equilibrium of masturbation that will either fück you or hold you down.

Get Rid of a Woman Who Think Your Dream Is Too Big for Her to Handle

If all she did is try to shape you or mold you to a different version of what you wouldn't be happy seeing yourself in five years to your current self then you have to consider cutting her off.

A woman's ambition should be to support her man, not to tell him what to do and how he should do it.

If your woman got mad because you didn't consider her opinion or what she thought you should do, you're actually a man.

Avoid Religion Advice

Those shït keeps men suck. 

Your pastor might be knåcking your woman and you will not know. And yet the bästärd was busy giving you advice.

Be cynical. But not to the point of destroying your own sanity.

You can download my PDF books or read my thriller novels.

Stay safe.