Kids smiling at you and their mother telling you everything they need because now it is holiday season and they need to buy all bunch of different things.

And that is where I want you to keep your mindset intact.

You might lose your edge. You might become less rational. You might decide to try things you will regret later.

Well, there's a simple solution: invest and empower your woman, but let her know you are doing that so that she don't ask you for everything.

Zero in on her emotions. Then see how peaceful your life become.