She was mādly in love with me ~ every girls that dated me always were ~ but she want me to be the father of her two kids.

That's a resounding no, I told her. Your kids are mature enough to know I'm not their father and they will definitely ask you for their father sooner or later.

Oh my God. She went crāzy. She said it was because I didn't love her enough. And sluggishly we both cut the relationship off.

Reality: she was looking for a dūmmy she can dump all her emotional baggage and mistakes on.

Lesson: a man must be willing to go beyond "I love you" to see the truth behind every action a woman is pushing his way.

Caution: there's still true love out there, but you have to be extra careful.

Understood?