"Here's what I learned about sharing a problem."

Especially with someone who's been through it before.

You start explaining something critical —

And they give you this vibe:

"It's not that serious."

And for a moment? You're disappointed.

"How can you be so unbothered? This is serious"

But then something weird happens.

You start feeling less bothered as well 

And then it hits you:

"When you're winning, you're not as good as you think.

When you're losing, you're not as bad as you think."