Habits & mistakes are not you, they're things triggered by locations, activities, places, people, thought patterns & expectations you have refused to drop.

The truth is that there are certain habits that you might have dealt with previously but that you may notice are getting back into your life.

The way out is not that the habits are so, powerful, but you need to understand the situations, mindsets, expectations & environments that triggers them.

If a certain environment, person, activity or thinking is triggering a negative habit within you, the goal is not to fight the habit, but to separate from the people, activities, thinking or environment that drags you into such habits.

When you identify it, & separate from it or them, that's where your deliverance begins from & when your strength will begin to rise.

You need to realize that manytimes, deliverance is only a decision to separate away from the things, people, places, activities & environments you keep going to or convincing yourself you cannot live without.

Because that habit does not have you bound, it is your people pleasing & self-convincing beliefs of what you think you need that is destroying you, and that holds you bound.

If you make the decision & stay with it, no matter how tough it looks at first, then, you'll begin to become free.

Be truthful to yourself, not trying to please your feelings or others.

And when I talk about the environment, it can be a particular place you keep visiting, a particular person you feel a strong sexual attraction for, but that you've noticed that apart from the sexual attraction, you're both not compatible because you always fight & your beliefs oppose themselves, & the only time you can agree with eachother is when you're feeling horny.

It might be a social media platform where you have noticed usually triggers you into unfaithfulness, mental laziness, lack of control, or a certain book or teaching that is polluting your mind.

It might be a belief you've held of yourself that you're the boss that's so special & that nobody is so amazing, smart, beautiful/intelligent like you

But you see, all of these kinds of thinking, people, places & environments are not really helping you, but they're destroying you. Yes!

You know what that thing is. You alone knows that it might be good for others, but you have noticed it is not good for you.

Listen! Part of knowing who you are is getting to know who, where & what is not yours or not good for you.

The fact that everyone thinks or lives & acts that way doesn't mean it is the healthy way to live & to think.

You cannot keep convincing yourself that this is how you are & nothing or no one can change that. If what you keep convincing yourself as your identity keeps pushing people away from you, & destroying your opportunities & help, why continue to live your life that same way?

What victory are you gaining by continually convincing yourself that you are that way & you can never be different, better or stop?

That's the lie satan has told you that you think you are the one telling yourself.

Because you see, any self-image that makes you think others are lower than you or are not as gifted, good or special as you are is no longer a healthy self image,

It has become pride, a destructive belief & an unhealthy expectation or evaluation of yourself.

This is why you don't listen to corrections & whenever you're about to be helped & corrected, you misinterpret it to be judgment.

Meanwhile you know you're getting worse & things are getting bad. You're loosing relationships & friends. Think!

Am not just talking to you, am still working on myself, still building myself, still trusting God to help me in certain areas.

But by all means, it is not ignoring what is destroying you that helps you make progress, rather, it is first accepting the truth about your own wrong living & thinking that helps to deliver & lead you into growth, transformation & deliverance.

If you don't accept the truth but keep believing nothing is wrong but that it is others who have the issues, you'll remain that way for years & destroy everything with your own lies.

Allow God to deal with your issues so that you can become free & healthy within yourself. Because the time has come for that.

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