Your beliefs attracts your circumstances & that's why you attract & are fit for the kinds of people that your soul attracts.

If a person is struggling with a certain habit, it is not the habit you're to focus on stopping, no! You're to focus on changing the mindset or beliefs you've sustained in that area for a long time.

Because whether you know it or not, it is that belief that is responsible for why you're acting or behaving the way you are or do.

Now! You may never agree with what I just said because you do not even think it is a belief you're struggling with.

And the reason for this is because manytimes, when a person's beliefs have been practiced by that person for a long time, it no longer looks like it is a script working in you, but it looks like it is a normal life you're living because that script has become a subconscious practice you're expressing.

But the power of transformation begins with accepting the truth of what you're not doing right & then, agreeing that you need help & that you're not invincible to being altered. It is at this point that your change begins.

Now! Everyone needs to change in something within an area of their life. It is not a debatable issue.

You may think you're alright & that you're not flawed, but that's the reason you're not seeing where you need help in.

Life will always show you that there's something to be tweaked or altered in you. Yes! And if you ever come to the point where you think nothing needs to be tweaked or altered in you, then, you are the problem of others.

And you need to ask the HolySpirit to show you the area where you require healing, transformation & change.

Because once people or a particular person, or place starts complaining about a certain thing you're doing wrong, or saying & that thing is destroying your relationships with men & making you loose opportunities, lose yourself, lose destiny helpers or lose respect, then, it means that you still need help in your life & need to alter your beliefs in that area.

Once a person or two keeps complaining about you in a particular area or about a particular thing you call right, then, you need a change of belief in that area.

As I write this, I realize certain areas that am trusting a change of understanding & belief in & am praying for God's intervention in my soul in those areas.

You're not as invincible as you think, & destroying or pointing on the wrongs of others without looking at yours or your own wrong is a sign you're not seeing your problem.

You need help more than you think or believe you do & one prayer you can make for yourself & not just for others is for God to deliver you from yourself & help you become a whole & beautiful or better person within.

And this begins with repentance & a change of beliefs & understanding.