They're spotted by the little things that happens within the transactions you have or engage in between you & other people, places & things.

In compatibility, what you find is the willingness within each person, place or thing to participate in what the other does & believes in, readiness to encourage, support & sacrifice who & what we are for the other person, place or thing so they can stay, stand or survive,

And the peace you notice you both share between yourselves in whatever you do & with who you are.

These are major signs of compatibility that we do not need an angel to show or speak to us about.

But when there's incompatibility between you & a place, a-persons or a thing, then, the first thing you'd notice is that you are not given the time, attention & you're not a priority to the other person, place or thing, & the other person, place or thing is not to you.

What you do or who you are is never enjoyed or respected, & you're not also appreciated before them, but are like a game to the other person, place or thing.

Then, they never find any reasons why they should sacrifice their own gifts, time, money or personality down for your own rising.

They have no desire of helping you & you have no desire of helping them either which is vice-versa.

Then, they are never supportive of your calling also.

You need to realize that compatibility is the oneness of heart & mind.

However, there are certain things that transpires that can make 2-compatible person's, places & things look like they're not compatible with themselves.

And one is when you notice they share the same understanding with you, but they have both not learnt or one of them have not learnt how to respect their role of respect, sacrificing & prioritizing the other person, place or thing in the relationship.

And this goes both ways whether from the younger one learning to respect, humble him or herself & acknowledge the older one, & the older one choosing to not force his or her own will, desire or plans on the younger one.

The truth is that consentive living is a skill an older person has to learn, but learning how to respect & humble yourself before your destiny helpers & those who decide to lay themselves down to your level to help or guide you is not a right you think you deserve,

Rather, it is a privilege.

When a younger person or a protege doesn't understand this, they claim to be wise, but what they think they know they usually learn with making many mistakes that almost destroy their lives or whatever they have been given by God.

And this usually happens because of pride.

Listen! A destiny helper is not your friend or equal, no matter how you want to interpret it.

Whether they're playing major or minor roles in your life, your disrespect & dishonour plus dishonesty towards them is always what makes that person withdraws.

Once you've never done an inch or attain an inch of whatever that person has, what it means is that you're clearly not in the same level with that person.

And you expecting that person to extend their hands of help or guidance towards you after your disrespect & dishonesty is something that may never happen until you realize your own wrong actions & adjust.

It is not that they're proud, but they honour boundaries well. Because boundary is respect, acceptance, honour & access.

Finally, one of the signs of knowing a person is not compatible with you or ready for what you're ready for is that they do not share the same passion with you in the same things you're passionate about.

And they do not have the capacity to support your passion, vision or drive.

Rather, they're always opposing & questioning what you do, who you are, what you believe & where you're going.

Do not close your eyes to these things & pretend you don't notice them, & you still claim God said.

When you're forcing a person to value you, like you, respect you or adjust their behaviour to suit yours, the best thing is not to try harder when they give you a negative feedback, but it is to excuse yourself from that path, goal or the desire you had for that person.