Date me because you know where you’re going, and you see me going with you.

Too many people enter relationships with no direction, no vision, and no intention. They just want to “see what happens.” But relationships are too important to be treated like experiments.

Before asking someone to walk beside you, ask yourself:

• What kind of life am I building?

• What values do I stand for?

• What future am I working towards?

• Can I clearly see this person fitting into that future?

A relationship should not be two confused people wandering together. It should be two intentional people moving in the same direction.

Love is beautiful, but vision matters. Attraction may start a relationship, but purpose helps sustain it.

So don’t date me because you’re lonely, bored, or curious. Date me because you’ve thought about your future, and you genuinely see me being a part of it.

Do you agree, or do you think people should date first and figure things out later? Let’s talk in the comments. 👇