“Don’t marry because you’re lonely. Don’t propose because everyone around you is getting engaged. Don’t choose a life partner before you’ve discovered the life you’re called to live.”
Purpose first, then propose.
Many people are searching for a spouse when they should be searching for direction. They want someone to complete a journey they haven’t even started.
Purpose gives clarity. Purpose shapes decisions. Purpose reveals the kind of person who can truly walk beside you.
When purpose is absent, relationships become confusing. Expectations become unrealistic, and love becomes a substitute for identity.
Before asking, “Who should I marry?” ask, “Who am I becoming?”
The right partner is not just someone you love; it’s someone who aligns with the vision, values, and assignment God has placed on your life.
Purpose first, then propose. Because finding the right person means little if you don’t know where you’re going.
