The context of marriage is to make man understand and have glimpse of what life of love is with God, as God laid down his life for man so should man lay down his life for his wife.

This isn’t a bond that is formed based on luck or instinct or whatsoever but by undying, limitless, unfathomable love, pure love, people often don’t know the difference between love and pure love.

The Bible had made it known that the relationship between God and man is like that of bride and groom, so we look to the actions of God to man as an insight and guidance to what marriage is, what to and not to do. For God was provoke, betrayed many times by the people of Israel but regardless he still loved them, saved them and even died for them, now let’s ask ourselves can we bear with a woman that is unfaithful like Israel, who would not think twice before they turn away and worship another god, although if you marry a woman that understands what love is she wouldn’t even think about doing all these atrocities thing, but still can we?

Most of us are thinking, if our partner start

 showing all these signs of being unfaithful, stubborn we would just call it quits and look for another one, that atleast we have learnt from our mistakes and will know what to look for in the next one, but thats not the case and this is where the whole world misunderstands it.

Just like our relationship with God, marriage establishes a covenant between a man and his wife, and the only way to break that covenant is only by death, just as the only way to be separated from God is through death, the same goes too with marriage between man and woman.

Divorce was made an option out for when a believer marries an unbeliever that wouldn’t turn, but now we have normalized it and gave it a new meaning.

The rule of divorce which has been commanded many times and has even been instructed directly from the mouths of Jesus is this; once you divorce you can and should never remarry, laying, having or being with another woman except your wife or husband is adultery, which is a sin, so therefore divorcing and remarrying another person is adultery, as in the sight of God the only way to separate a man from his wife is through death, but if your partner happens to die in marriage you are permitted to remarry, if he or she is well and truly alive and you put he or she away for another is adultery, reconciling with your wife is the best option otherwise do not look at another except your partner because he or she belongs to another.

Avoiding all these is key to a successful marriage and the formula is love, if you can understand what love truly is then this can never be your problem.

But marriage is now seen as various things, to some, a means of wealth or some bunch of other diabolical reason and that is why the level of faithful marriage keeps decreasing. It’s sad that most people are forced into marriage, some peer pressure, whilst some see it as a means of income, getting half of the fortune through divorce, all these problems I believe comes from one root which is the source of all these and that is the parents, parental guidance and not being thought what love is and is supposed to be.

It’s very much sad that now more than 60% of the world are divorced and the separation of parents have a lot of negative impact on the lives of their children, turning them into what was never supposed to be and passing the feeling of never knowing what love is unto them making it almost certain that they would do the same as their parents.

The problem that failed marriages cause is almost incurable and has left a very huge hole in the whole world, this is a bad disease that we don’t acknowledge that it is and we don’t bother looking for a cure, we need to fix up.