If everything that has to do with compatibility is just about the character & mindsets of men, it would have been fine.

But the reason someone will not accept you or agree to be intimately associated with you is manytimes because they may not be attracted to your physicality which includes your skin colour, your height, your body shape, your expressions & even your own unique experiences.

This is life, not demonic.

This is striking because if one looks at this, you'd think it is all a matter of choice & will which is undoubtedly a little part of it that can be adjusted for some people & within some situations.

But the bigger picture I realized about attraction is that it is an inward design placed by the creator to help us guide our attraction to the right people & to guide us into the path of our destiny connections.

See. Do not force people to accept or like you for how you look or for who or what you are, cause they'll not.

Because acceptance is intrinsically knitted, it is beyond the physical, it is a wiring that stems from the purposes of the creator installed within us & it works on it's own.

This is why you may meet someone for the first time & just like that person or feel a strong sexual attraction towards that person & then, meet someone else for the first time & not experience the same connection or likeness towards them.

It is not your fault, it is coming from the wiring of the connection you experienced with that person, place or thing.

But likeness has nothing to do with attraction, but it has everything to do with your perception of a person's expression, behaviour, beliefs & experiences towards you.

But attraction is not likeness, it is sexual. Although attraction can come from likeness after your experiences with a person, place or thing, but attraction is usually a product of chemistry, but not an assurance of compatibility between 2-persons, places or path.

Now! The fact that you are attracted to a person doesn't mean that they will also be attracted to you.

And this is why your attraction can be turned down by someone you're attracted to, because attraction is not always mutual. It is sometimes one-way.

An attraction turned down is not a sign you're not beautiful, important or loved, sometimes, it is a clue you're not compatible with that person, place or thing, & it is the deliverance you might need by God inorder not to destroy your own future.

Stop interpreting the rejection as hatred/despise, it is actually deliverance & the lesson of wisdom needed by you.