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‎*1) Love should be intentional*

‎Their relationship moved from content creation into a deliberate commitment, with proposals, family introductions, traditional rites and legal marriage. It shows that serious relationships require intentional steps, not just emotions. 

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‎*2) Involve family*

‎Peller travelled to Benin City to formally meet Jarvis' family and fulfil the traditional marriage requirements. Marriage isn't only about two individuals; families and cultures matter too. 

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‎*3) Don't let social media define your relationship*

‎Their relationship has been highly public, but the wedding demonstrates the importance of moving beyond online attention into real-life commitment and responsibility.

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‎*4) Prepare for marriage, not just the wedding*

‎Peller reportedly attended private pre-marriage counselling to learn how to care for Jarvis and become a responsible husband. That's a powerful reminder that the wedding is one day; marriage is the real journey. 

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‎*5) Respect each other's culture*

‎Their celebrations incorporated traditional Edo elements while also embracing modern and Christian/civil wedding formats. Their story shows that different backgrounds can be brought together through mutual respect. 

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‎*6) Have boundaries around your big moments*

‎After concerns about crowds and missing phones during the traditional celebration, Peller said the white wedding would be restricted to about 100 guests, while fans could still participate online.  Please note that you can share your happiness without giving everyone unlimited access to your private life.

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‎*7) Build a strong support system*

‎Their wedding attracted family, friends, fellow creators and prominent personalities, while people also contributed gifts and support. Please note that the people you surround yourself with can make difficult seasons easier.

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‎*8) Don't confuse a lavish wedding with a successful marriage*

‎Their celebration involved celebrities, luxury, entertainment and major gifts - including substantial property gifts, but none of those things guarantees a happy marriage. Character, communication, trust and commitment matter far more after the cameras leave.

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‎*9) Keep growing together*

‎Peller and Jarvis started as digital creators who collaborated on content before becoming romantic partners. 

‎A healthy relationship should allow both people to grow individually while building something together.

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‎*10) The real celebration begins after the wedding*

‎Their ceremonies - from the proposal to traditional marriage, civil wedding and white wedding, were milestones, but marriage itself is the beginning of a new responsibility. Their own wedding message described it as a “new chapter.” Please note that don't spend all your energy preparing for the wedding and forget to prepare for the life you are getting married into.

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‎In summary, Peller and Jarvis' story teaches that a beautiful wedding can attract attention, but a beautiful marriage requires preparation, family, boundaries, maturity, commitment and continuous work.